Objections to Homeschooling from Nigerians || BBC Interview on Homeschooling In Nigeria
We are in a time in our history when mainstream media is interested in Homeschooling as a concept and it is something that will be welcome at the same time I don't think we are ready to be open-minded to learn and not be stuck in our ways.
BBC interviewed me last month on Homeschooling and I was so excited to talk about one of my favourite topics. .png)
As expected there were a lot of comments both negative and positive one interesting thing was how divided it was across platforms. Most of the comments from Facebook were negative and those on Instagram were positive.
In this article, I want to talk extensively on each of the objections and comments made, in case someone out there also needs some education.
On Competition & Real Life:
I have wondered why people think competition is important for the development of a child. I understand that there are some positive aspects of healthy competition but I can't help but wonder if it's the best thing for children at such tender ages. Some of what might be termed as the positive aspects of competition can easily be taught to children independently but we are not willing to do the work, are we? Taking time to teach your child to be disciplined, think critically, manage their time etc are things we can do ourselves. On the other hand is learning it from being "among their peers" there is the tendency to get low self-esteem, undue pressure and stress and focus on winning instead of deep learning in the process. Every situation of competition we find in the real world are things that are optional, you can choose to enrol in a sport, you can choose to apply for a scholarship, you can choose to xyz. It's all a choice and when you make the choice you prepare for what it entails. Even in our everyday life as we are older now one of the mantras we say is "You are not in competition with anyone" because when you are living your life on your lane, you are really not in competition with anyone but we condition children to be in competition then when they grow older tell them they are not in competition? Sigh! Think about it, after we got positions all through primary and secondary school, did all that matter in real life? Nah! I propose, picking out the values we think we see from competition and teach our children those values independently and guess where it will start and end? At HOME!
"Integration" back into society:
On Socialization:
On your influence and the downgrade of parents:
On selfishness & wickedness:
Sportsmanship & extracurricular activities:
In conclusion; Homeschooling is beneficial to both the child(ren) and the family but as a people, we need to be more open-minded and understand that because someone chose a different path it doesn't mean they are attacking your choice. The internet is a blessing and we should be ready to do the research that is necessary to educate ourselves so we can be better informed and maybe make better arguments!
Do you have any objections to homeschooling?
How to effectively Homeschool in Africa
Homeschooling in Africa is still in its early stages when compared to somewhere like the USA that has over 50 years under her belt, while there are thriving Homeschooling communities in countries like Ghana, Kenya, Uganda, Nigeria, South Africa, etc. we still have a dearth of information about Homeschooling in Africa. In this article I would be exploring, our strengths and our unique challenges in Africa with regard to Homeschooling, and how we can still thrive regardless of those challenges.
Introduction:
Let's start with defining what Homeschooling is; I always define Home education as parenting pro max because your child is in your face 90% of the time but that's just my own definition, a more acceptable one is creating an individualized education for your child. It is an alternative form of education where parents take on the primary responsibility for their children's learning. I believe Africans need to embrace Home education as a viable alternative to education and not just for individuals but as a way to curb the current out-of-school children or children from low-income families, but that is a conversation for another day.
Understand The Benefits of Homeschooling in Africa:
Understanding The Challenges of Homeschooling in Africa:
Understanding the legal and regulatory concerns:
Understanding how to map out your child's education in Africa:
For you to make Homeschooling effective in Africa, you have to understand the trajectory your child's education will take so you can know what you would like to do. In the USA for example, there are different ways you can use to record your child's education transcript and everything they get up to so it makes transitioning to traditional school/college seamless, however, in most African countries there are no set guidelines or regulations to follow so you have to be proactive as a parent.
In whatever African country you are, you have to understand where your child will transition back into the traditional schooling or the exams needed to write to get into the university and prepare for that. I know in Nigeria, we write an exam after Primary 6, After Jss3 and SS3 (Jamb & Waec) to enter the university. You have to make a plan ahead to know where you will transition them and prepare them for those exams if you want to.
Understanding the need for assessment and record keeping:
Understanding the need for advocacy & recognition:
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