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Review: Olumo rock with kids what you need to know

July 26, 2021



I'm falling in love with exploring out-of-state places, just hope the roads will be safer but till then we will go by the train where we can go.



Olumo rock is a massive outcrop of granite rocks of primitive formation from which Abeokuta the capital of the state derived its name.

The rock is a historical monument that served as shelter and fortress for the Egba people who in 1830 had settled under the rock during the intercity wars. The rock is a monument of faith, unity. source of strength and unfailing protection for Ebga people.

The highest point of the rock is 137 meters above sea level with the existence of a muster tree growing for over 200 years and surrounding caves.





Olumo rock tourist complex has modern infrastructures of a heavy-duty glass escalator running through the different levels of the rock with a well-constructed stairway for visitors with a phobia for climbing mountains. Also, included are an eatery/restaurant, a museum, conference hall, multi-purpose hall, garden, parking space, and a heavy-duty generator 

Source: ogunstate.gov.ng 





The kids of course have not been to Olumo Rock before so, the trip was for them we just tagged along to make sure they don't jump from the top of the rock 😏 They HAD FUN! They might not know the history behind the tourist site but the memories of those stairs they climbed will not be forgotten. It was after that they knocked out but they were absolutely delighted to experience it and if not for anything they came to see their mama's hometown and learn what "Okuta" means.


What we loved about the place: 

We loved first that it was easy to access, the views of the place is such a great experience, loved that they had enough tour guides at every landing to help tell you about the history of the place and there's enough space to picnic with the family, side attractions of the display of African arts. The kids loved the "Big giant rocks" and "The stairs" 





What we did not like: 

Having to come down at the gate to pay for gate fee and you have to hold cash. The elevator is not working (for as long as I've known its not worked), the place can be more maintained because it's a hot spot and the first point of call when you hear tourist attraction in Abeokuta, I think they can do better. The kids didn't like it because "The rocks felt like it will crash on me" 😂 





Price breakdown



Train Economy 2k Adult 1k Kids

Cab from Laderin (train station in Abeokuta) 1k

Olumo Tour 1k Adult 500 for 5years old free for 4 years old cuddles (Swipe to see the full list) 

Food 100 rice/portion 1k Turkey







Plan a holiday trip you can go on a day trip because there is a train for 8am and in the evening too (not sure of the time though) and by 2pmish we were done.


Verdict: 

I think it is still a very worthwhile experience to give yourself and your kids. It gets a 3.5/5 Cuddly loves. 

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Comprehensive list of places to take your kids to for the holiday in Lagos, Ibadan, Abuja & Abeokuta

July 7, 2021

 



If you have been wondering and planning for the holiday as it approaches on what to do with your kids. I am here to help. 

I also worked with other people out of my city to curate this list too based on their experience and feedback. 

Click the link to download this list 

I hope it helps you create fun, loving memories of the holiday with your kids. 

Have fun.


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SAHM SAHM Spotlight

Stay at home mum spotlight: Lois Leke-amoo

June 18, 2021

 Lois is a friend of mine and I've known her for about 3 years now if i'm not mistaken. Amazed at her strength and tencity. Today the spotlight is on her SAHM journey as she shares her heart with us, you can find her talking about her motherhood journey @thismotherhoodthingy



1.  Please introduce yourself

My name is Lois Leke-Amoo. I'm a stay-at-home Mum, author, and a graphics designer.



2. How many kids(with ages) do you have and how long have you been a stay-at-home mum?

I have an amazing 2year old and I've been a stay-at-home Mum since she was born. Before sef if you will. Lol

3. What did you do before making the decision to be a sahm?

 I was running a jewelry company that made unique and beautiful jewelry for both males and females.

4. What was your thought process like while making the decision?

For me, it wasn't like I had a choice. My daughter was born premature so I had to stay at home and care for her...even though I always wanted to homeschool and knew being a stay-at-home Mum might be what will work... still, having a premature baby wasn't how I pictured it will happen. Lol.

5. What has been your challenges so far? 

The major challenge is not making as much money. Before I got married, I was used to sorting myself out and making 'my money'. So now, not making so much has been....hmmm...but since it's something we both agreed to, I keep that in view when I feel weird.


6. What do you absolutely love about being a sahm?

Experiencing every moment with my daughter! Not missing fun times and even the annoying ones too. They are growing me. I love the bonding too.

7. One of the things that a lot of the people talk about with regards to being a sahm is "How to make money?" What has your journey with making an income been like as a sahm?

Hehehe. People should leave stay at home Mum's alone. We honestly should be paid because managing a home and catering to children is not for the faint-hearted o. My journey with income-making has been very up and down. Many months I don't make a dime and then some inflow comes.
Late last year, I started looking inwards for ways to make money and not kill myself or overload my already busy schedule. I wrote a book about all I'm learning as a Christian toddler Mum and the response has been awesome. I also ventured into graphics design and while that isn't making money for me yet...I'm very excited about the future

8. How do you currently make money (if you do)?

I think I already answered that. Winks.


9. What do you think are some of the misconceptions people have about being a sahm? 

The major misconception is that stay at home Mum's are taking the easy way out. Allowing just the man to 'hustle' while they 'cruise'. If only they know the work involved ehn. The other one is the whole pressure to make money! Gosh. Relax people! Let her understand everything being a sahm entails and then trust me, she will start to think about money-making. But to put that pressure on her is grossly unfair and insensitive.

10. Have you gotten any negative comments about your decision?

A lot. Especially on making money or doing something with myself other than being a Mum. Mhen it was hard. But thank God for the husband I married. He kept assuring me that I was doing just fine.

11. Have you dealt with doubt or low self-esteem because of your decision?

Yes, many times. There will always be seasons of doubt...but I have learned to pray about them and voice them out to my hubby. Sometimes all I'm thinking is all in my head and the reality of the matter is totally different.



12. How important do you think having a supportive spouse is on this journey?

150% important o. If you don't have a supportive spouse...it's like a death trap! You and your spouse must agree over and over again that this decision is joint because it will affect both of you and sometimes test the marriage as well.

13. What do you do to take care of yourself/have fun? 

Read a book, watch a movie, dance with my toddler, go out with friends.

14. What advice would you give a mum who is currently thinking of becoming a sahm?

Be sure of your WHY. Write it down. Agree with your husband how long you wanna do this and the necessary nitty-gritty. Lastly and most importantly, pray, pray, and pray again!
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Simple guide to drama-free mummy friendships

June 9, 2021

 Yesterday (June 8) was the world's best friend day apparently. I don't have a lot of best friends and my trust in female friendships has really dwindled based on some not-so-pleasant experiences from Uni. 



I didn't realize how much that experience affected my future friendships until when I became a mum and forming mum friendships became really difficult. It's easy to have on-the-surface conversations about our motherhood experiences without really forming a deep bond with the person and honestly that's what I've done. I take a back seat in groups in order to avoid any drama that arises. I try to stay objective with my views, avoiding conflict as much as possible but I must say female friendships is not exactly my forte.  

I know there are some set of people who generally frown at male-female best friend relationships (which are just purely friendships) but my best friend for so many years is a guy, through romantic relationships, religion, career decisions, family, life issues we have grown so much without the drama and that's exactly what I love about the dynamics. I also love now that I can give him advice based on a females perspective that can help him make better decisions as a husband/father and vice versa. 

In the new female friendships I have, I try to be very cautious and not rush into anything. Working my way from acquaintance to close friendships while I still put a boundary but I let the ones I have to grow naturally without forcing them before gradually removing the boundaries that I set. I know some of how I deal with friendships is not healthy but it's kept me sane. 

Here are some things I have learnt over the years that guide me in my mummy friendships;

  1. That mummy friend that is my best friend in my mind, I don't also have to be her best friend. What I mean is, it is okay if I am not her best friend yet I consider her my best friend. 
  2. Have respect and understanding for your mummy friends. Being a mum is not easy, extending some grace to your friend should be all that matters. Respect their decisions & boundaries, try to understand what drives them. It will help your relationship flourish. 
  3. Pick up the phone and call. Don't guilt-trip your friend because they haven't called in a while. I mean, is something wrong with your own phone? 
  4. Think deeply about what you would like in your friendships, what quality you'd like in your friend, and exhibit those qualities to someone else. Be the friend you need to someone else without seeking anything in return. 
  5. Have difficult conversations. I am learning to stop avoiding conflict and be willing to have difficult conversations in my relationships. It's not enough to 
  6. Have that one person you KNOW will always have your back, no judgment, no airs, nothing. Find that person and hold on tight. Life is indeed richer with amazing relationships. 

I am really looking forward to once again having a really close friend that stays close to my house that we can really do life together but till then we make do with all the long-distance friendships with have and enjoy it while it lasts. 

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Stay at home mum spotlight: Betty Achieng Ouma

May 21, 2021

I was drawn to betty by her warm spirit and amazing smile. She lives in Kenya and it's been an absolute pleasure getting to know more Kenyan mum bloggers through her.  She blogs at https://mummyessentialske.com/ and is on IG @mummyessentials_ke 






1.  Please introduce yourself

My name is Betty Achieng Ouma, I am a civil engineer by profession, a lover of art specifically
photography, an introvert and a stay at home mom by choice, I am a wife, been married for 7
years come August.

2. How many kids(with ages) do you have and how long have you been a stay-at-home mum?

I am a mother of three; two boys aged 5 years old, and three years old, and our last born girl
who is now two months old, which means I have been a stay at home mom for five years, which
we celebrated in April.

3. What did you do before making the decision to be a SAHM?

As I mentioned in my introduction, I was a civil engineer, had worked for two years before I gave
birth to our firstborn hence the beginning of my journey as a SAHM.

4. What was your thought process like while making the decision?

I have an interesting journey, first, it was never a decision, my contract with the company I was
working for ended 2 weeks before giving birth, so what happened is I just opted to stay home,
my husband and I never had a sit-down conversation about me being a stay-at-home mom.


However, things changed when we had our second born; two years after our first, we were
going through a financial stretch so after six months with my second born I looked for a job to
help out financially. I was a personal assistant to a medical director (went the total opposite from
my profession) but four months down the line things were not working out with my househelp
and it was just stressful. That is when we sat down as a family and we both agreed that the
wises thing was for me to be home and just try and balance our finances.

5. What has been your challenges so far? 

I have had many challenges, but one that I can say stands out is being contented in this season. For a long time, I struggled with thoughts of self-doubt, feelings of missing out, and having moments when it felt like I was wasting away, especially career-wise. I can say that 2021 is the year that I am finally learning to be content and find purpose while being a stay-at-home mom.




6. What do you absolutely love about being a SAHM?

I love knowing that I have been there for them in every season, I have witnessed a lot of their development. I have heard their speech develop, I have watched them make their first steps, I have been there through their tears and laughter. But mostly I love that being a stay-at-home mom has made me learn more about myself.


7. One of the things that a lot of the people talk about with regards to being a SAHM is "How to make money?" What has your journey with making an income been like as a SAHM?

I have done different projects when it comes to making an income while at home as SAHM, I have made fresh juice, and snacks and sold at small events like bridal showers. There was a season I did handmade earrings and sold, I own a DSLR, which has enabled me to get bookings for baby and bridal showers, I have also shot one wedding. At the moment I am not doing any of these because we recently welcomed our newborn.


8. How do you currently make money (if you do)?

We recently had our third born so I am currently not doing anything to create income, so our only source of income is what my husband earns.


9. What do you think are some of the misconceptions people have about being a SAHM? 

There are a lot of misconceptions but thank God for social media, a lot is being cleared up by SAHM. The one that bugged me for long was that stay-at-home moms don’t do anything, they are lazy when they complain to be tired and that they don’t want to work.


10. Have you gotten any negative comments about your decision?

I have received comments that were a bit hurtful, I don’t want to blame the people who made those comments because I have learned that times people make comments from a place of concern not knowing they are being hurtful. But one comment that I have held unto for long is when someone said that I wasn’t being a supportive wife by just staying at home.

11. Have you dealt with doubt or low self-esteem because of your decision?

When I got the job as a personal assistant, one of the reasons why I did that was because of doubt. I kept wondering if I was doing the right thing for myself. I felt like I was not living my purpose and because our finances were a bit tight, I felt insecure to ask for things I was desiring like clothes, and shoes and dealt with low self-esteem at some point.


12. How important do you think having a supportive spouse is on this journey?

It is very important, I don’t think I would have made it were it not for my husband continuously reassuring me that I was doing a great job. There are days when I feel like I haven’t done anything and he will always remind me that just staying at home is everything. Those reminders keep me going.



13. What do you do to take care of yourself/have fun? 

Mondays my husband is usually at home so that is the day I always leave in the morning and come back in the evening. I use that time to go eat a favorite meal or treat myself to some ice cream. There are days I just go meet up with some of my older mom friends and just pour out my heart. Totally looking forward to doing this once I can leave the newborn with her father, I miss these moments.


14. What advice would you give a mum who is currently thinking of becoming a SAHM?

My advice would be first if you are raising your child with your partner make sure both of you are on the agreement that you should be a SAHM. Secondly, connect with other SAHM or moms who were once SAHM, truth is you need that community to stay sane on days you feel like giving up, third, get rid of your perfection list, being SAHM doesn’t need perfection. I wish I could go on but for now, those three is what is on my top list

Are you a stay at home mum and would love to share your journey with us? Please send a mail to thecuddleblog@gmail.com stating your interest. See past features here


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10 Places to go with kids that cost 2k or less || Lagos, Ibadan & Abuja

May 18, 2021

  One of the things I've seen in my 3 years of homeschooling in Nigeria is that there are very affordable places to take your kids to.  Sometimes some of the objections you get from parents for not taking their children on adventures is that it's so expensive. I realized that for most places it's usually free to enter for children of young ages and half the price from age 5. 



In this article, I will share with you 9 places you can take your children to that will cost you 2k or less; 


  1. Railway Compound: The Jaekel House is a 2-story colonial mansion in Ebute Metta, Lagos, Nigeria. The house was built in 1898 on a large expanse of landscaped land and named after the late Francis Jaekel OBE, a former superintendent of the Nigerian Railway Corporation who retired in the 1970s after almost three decades of active service.



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Jaekel House was formally the residence of the General Manager and was later converted to a senior staff rest house. The building has been renovated and restored by Professor John Godwin in collaboration with the Railway Corporation in 2010.

The building is now a “mini-museum” showcasing photographic archives dating from the 1940s through to 1970s of personalities, places, historical events in pre-and post-independent Nigeria and houses artefacts (tools, equipment, attires, pictures etc) of the old Railway Corporation

 

What we loved: Mummy loved the history that the place holds, neatly kept and maintained, serene and generally lovely. Kids loved all the train stuff, the old things in the museum, looking at the old pictures, and large space to run around.
What we didn't like: Honestly, there was nothing I didn't like about the place. Gotta give it to the managers of the place! @legacy1995ng

 

Cost: Kids: 200
           Adult: 1000

Cuddly Ratings: 5 Cuddly loves

 

2. Millennium Park - Abuja: the biggest park I've ever seen! Millennium Park. The amazing thing is that it's free! I was even more surprised at the level of maintenance and the facility itself, simply amazing. It is located in the Maitama district of the city




3. Abayomi Finnih Park: it's still new, spacious and has a Mini-Zoo and other activities! It is located on the Opebi link bridge in Ikeja







4. Freedom Park: 

You have to pay ₦200 to enter which in my opinion is not bad, there's a museum (which we didn't see), a mini playground, fish pond with beautiful orange fishes, art, the portal Lagos (I didn't quite get the idea of this place, but it sounded cool, you can talk to different people in different locations in the world) we couldn't do the portal thing because the people to talk to were unavailable at the time, there's food and aloooot of history! The place looks averagely maintained.



Watch a full review here

5. Lufasi Park: Lufasi park is an acronym for Lekki Urban Forestry and Animal Shelter [source] located Majek 1st Gate, KM 41, Lekki-Epe Expressway, Lagos, Lekki - Epe expressway is fancy way for saying, it's after LBS, after Novare mall, so be aware of the distance. 

Cost:


6. Muri Okunola park: Muri Okunola Park is located Opposite law school in VI perfect place for a picnic and for your child to run around. 
Cost: Free




7. Agodi gardens - Ibadan: Formerly called Agodi Zoological and Botanical Gardens, Agodi Gardens was created in 1967. The garden was destroyed by the Ogunpa flood disaster in 1980 as most of the animals were swept away by the raging water. The garden was renovated in 2012 by the Oyo State Government and the new Agodi Gardens was reopened in 2014. It is located around the secretariet. It cost 500 for adult and children






Read full review here

8. Ibadan zoo: The University of Ibadan Zoological Garden was established in 1948 primarily as Menagerie to support teaching and research in the Department of Zoology. With time the animal collection grew in number and diversity and the Menagerie gradually became a full fledged Zoo in 1974. It welcomes a large number of visitors from far and near every year.
The University of Ibadan Zoo, like most modern zoos, displays wild animals primarily for the conservation of endangered species, as well as for research purposes and education, and so also for the entertainment of visitors.
The garden is home to a wide array of animals comprising mammals, birds, reptiles and amphibians. It is located in the university of Ibadan.

Cost: 500 for adult & Children



Full Review here


9. Lekki Conservation: The NCF is a non-governmental organisation dedicated to sustainable development and nature conservation. It also serves as an area of biodiversity conservation and environmental awareness centre. The foundation aims to preserve Nigeria's species and ecosystems, promote sustainability when using natural resources and advocates actions that minimise the impact on the environment and prevent resource wastage. ⠀



 It is located oppositte chevron traffic light on Lekki-epe expressway.

Cost
Children: 200 (5>) Free for below 5
Student: 300
Adult: 1000 
Canopy: 1000 

Read a full review here

10. Children's park and zoo Abuja: 

National Children's Park and Zoo, the maintenance story for this one is not for today, but it's a great space, affordable, quite a number of animals to see and learn about, we didn't get a guide though. It would've been great if the place is well maintained, if they have to take the entry fee abit higher to do that, it will be worth it tbh... But it was great enough for my child to see the wild animals in real life. Their lions are really cute and look so clean! I would go back there if and when I come back! Animals they have Lions, Buffalo, monkeys, rabbits, ostrich, hyena, horse, pony, birds, crocodile, tortoise, donkey, goose, snake

Cost: it's ₦400 for adults ₦200 for children above 3, free for children below 3.



Bonu: Nike Art Gallery: Nike art gallery is located at Elegusi traffic light in Lekki. It is free but you have to sign an undertaking of some sort if you want to take your kids in. 



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