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Teaching your children to pray || How to teach your children to pray

January 21, 2020


One of the important aspects of raising godly children is prayer.

Most of our children cannot go past "Thank God for Mummy & Daddy" in prayer and while it is a good start we have to continue to teach them HOW to pray.

Here's a simple way to do that;

  1. Model prayer to them: Don't do a child's version prayer when you are praying for them during bedtime because you want it to be simple and I am not saying be speaking in tongues but model conversations with God, talking to God and not just "Thank you for Daddy and Mummy" they will do as they see. 
  2. Teach the Lord's prayer: When the disciples asked Jesus to teach them to pray, the Lords prayer was his response. Your 2 year old can repeat after you as long as they can tell you to "leave me alone" they can say God's word or say a prayer. This is the model of prayer and we have to let them know. 
  3. Let them pray: Let it be part of their morning and evening routine to pray, give them the room to pray and don't always say the prayer for them, let them learn and refuse the urge to 'correct' anything, as you continue to model how to pray they will continue to learn. 
  4. Give room to listen to God: This wasn't part of my list but the holy spirit dropped this in my spirit right now and I have to start doing this. One of my own major problems is actually settling down to listen to God's heart, how about if I start incorporating it for my child to let him understand that prayer is a 2 way communication. Of course for younger children you can't expect much but just model it and watch how they understand the concept as they grow older. Have some silence after talking to God to listen to what he has to say, older kids can write down what they hear from God too. 
  5. Be consistent and let God lead you: Consistency is key, you cannot pray today and not pray tomorrow, habits are formed by consistency, remember we are laying the foundation for the future of our children. Let God lead in every thing.
I hope these tips will help you teach your children to pray! 

Here's to raising godly children because that is what God wants. Malachi 2:15 
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30 Simple Bible Verses For Your Toddler and Preschooler || Help your child know the Bible early

January 16, 2020

As a Christian family, one of your values will be to transfer the knowledge of Jesus to your children. They need to know God's word to be able to achieve that and I say that any child that can tell me "leave me alone" can recite the Bible.

I started teaching simple Bible verses to my son at bedtime, one every 2 weeks or 3 (no pressure) the goal is not for them to just know how to recite but it's for them to have the word hid in their hearts and as they grow older and curiosity spikes we can then educate them about God, his word, his son and everything inbetween.

I have carefully selected 30 simple Bible verses that you can recite with your children, at bedtime, in the car, on the road, in the shower, while taking a work, literally anytime! So simple that my almost 3 years old now knows some bible verses and can complete them when we start reciting.

Remember, the goal is not to do quiz for them to see if they 'get' it. The goal is to keep putting the word before them and KNOW that as they grow older they have God's word hid in their hearts. Some days they would be interested and other days they won't, don't sweat it! Being *Insert your childs age* is fine!


Fill the form below to get all 30 Bible verses!
I hope you find this useful, let me know what you think.

Thank you!
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Ultimate Nigerian Mum's Organization System || Stay organized as a Nigerian Mum

January 13, 2020
Hello Mamas,

How is 2020 treating you?



Over here, we have settled into the first week of homeschooling and as I was waiting for my housekeeper and preparing for her return, I decided to put together in a PDF how I stay organised as a Nigerian mum and what helps my home run smoothly.

In this pdf you'd find sample grocery list, cleaning schedule for your home, sample market list, sample food time table for your toddler and other home resources and a bonus of places to visit in Lagos and Abuja

I really wanted to make the process simple, so if you want it you can just download it via this link here. It is N1,999

Kindly let me know what other resources you think I can develop for you.

Thank you and I really hope that this resource helps you stay organised!


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Homeschooling Review and 2020 Homeschool Plan || Homeschooling In Nigeria

January 6, 2020





We officially started homeschooling last year March, and I must say it has been one journey! In this article I would share with you why I chose the approach I did, how we did and what we will be doing this year. 

What did we do? 

The year started with us enrolling In a mummy &me playgroup once a week and I absolutely loved what I learnt there. Before then I was scouting the internet on what curriculum to use for my 2 years old and how I was going to teach him colours, numbers and alphabets but in the course of my research I found a better way. 
Theme based approach.
For the early years, I found this very practical and less burdensome on the child because they get to learn diverse things under a themed umbrella, which broadens the scope of the theme and incorporates real life into our everyday experience. 

How did I get it? 

I went on the internet to check for themes, checked through and picked some that applied to us and what we had available. Came up with the list in this post. We started and documented the process, via pictures, articles & videos. What I also did was for each week based on his developmental milestone I created activities around those themes. 

What worked?

The theme approach as a whole worked very well for us and I think I will be doing the same thing this year again, we had different categories of our focus based on his development and what I felt was important for him to explore at any given time. 

We also enjoyed out field trips and outings as we went to quite a number of places this year and learnt a lot from the trips. 

The pace and schedule I created for us also worked and it wasn’t too cumbersome and was flexible enough for us when we didn’t feel like doing anything. We only had structured activities 3 times a week and free play & TV for the rest of the week. 

I started doing a review & assessment of my child weekly and I didn’t quite keep up but I observed him a lot more to notice his patterns and what he was interested in so I could continue to leverage that in his education and I must say that it’s been helpful and I will be putting to use things I learnt this year about him and doing more assessments. 

What didn’t work.

The year-long themes; Initially I thought we would work every week and do activities but I just quickly realised how much break is needed for mama. We took like 3 breaks this year which made it effectively about 30+weeks of theme based activities and I am planning accordingly now. 

Staying at home: homeschooling doesn’t mean it happens at home and honestly I think my son is already too familiar with home, so he would request for TV and run around during circle time and sometimes even not wanting to do anything and I know if we went somewhere else he most likely won’t do that. It was frustrating sha. I am working on doing up a room for the duration of our homeschool. 

I didn’t do my best; I had a burn out, so I slacked a lot. I don’t beat myself up over it but I did make up for it with all the outings we went for in December. One thing I am sure of I gave him a great experience in 2019 and I am willing to go all out this year. 

What I am doing this year?
I have prepared for this year and I will walk you through everything I did in my instalive session that will hold 13th of January on my instagram account. Do follow me @thecuddleblog to learn more about it on there. 

How was your homeschool year 2019? What will you be doing this year?

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2019 Blog Review And 2020 Blog Goals

January 1, 2020
Hello Beautiful People!!!

Happy New Year!!!!!


How are you guys doing? At the beginning of last year, I wrote my blog goals in order to be accountable to you all and I am here to do a review of those goals and see how we did.

Last year on the blog our all time visits came to 50,000+ views and our 5 most visited blog posts were;


  • Homeschooling Feelings Theme 
  • Homeschooling Independence Theme
  • Why I decided to Homeschool
  • Why we should take our children's privacy seriously
  • How to feel zero shame as a stay at home mum

As the blog continues to grow, I am just so excited at the amount of amazing women I have met in the course of the year! Just because of this blog, I don't take it for granted in anyway.


Here were my goals and how we did in 2019;

Goals for 2019

  •        Write 1 – 2 posts per month - We wrote about 40 articles this year in total which is absolutely amazing!
  •      Collaborate with brands - We have not really achieved this, but I know there will be more possibilities this 2020
  •    Release one more physical product - This was achieved! Whooot! Even more amazing we did 2!!!! We registered The Cuddle Play house as a business also this year and we are super excited to kick off operations in 2020!
  •       One digital product - Still working on this, the time isn't right yet.
  •       Start a mum (support) club - We started this late in the year and we are accepting new members in January, if you are a stay at home mum and you'd like to join, let me know.
  •     Host an event for the hangout - Even better we did a homeschooling conversations! 
  •      Have guest posts from other mums - We did this!
  •      Share YouTube videos once a month - We flopped! Lol
In 2019 I will be focusing on
  •     Stay at home mum content
  •     Homeschooling resources and my journey
  •     Parenting a toddler
  •     Raising godly kids
Our Goal for 2020; 
  •       Write more blog posts - 4 Posts a Month
  •       Collaborate with brands 
  •       Do reviews of products and places
  •       Organize our 2nd edition of homeschooling conversations 
  •       Do outings for our Homeschooling support group
  •       Grow and do offline events for our stay at home mums support group
  •       Create resources for homeschooling and sahm mums 
Our focus stays the same as we would include;
  •       Product reviews
     Looking back has a way to help you keep what is in focus in focus and not beat yourself up over unachieved goals. I would say we didn't bad for ourselves this year and I am really grateful for everyone that read this blog and shared, please leave comments next year. Lol.
I pray that God willing we all have a great and fulfilling 2020! God bless you loads! 

Your favourite mum blogger 
Tomilola



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Merry Christmas

December 25, 2019


Merry Christmas!!!! We wish you a wonderful Christmas. This Christmas holiday was a wonderful one, this is the first Christmas where my son was aware and we did a number of activities this year.

We went to

  • Landmark Beach 
  • Zoo
  • Park
  • Nike Art Gallery
  • Baking
One thing I didn't do was put up a tree because I like to choose my battles and reduce my shoutings, the year is coming to an end and I want to enter the new year as a chilled mum. Lol. 

You can check this post for activities you can do around lagos.

What are you doing for Christmas?


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Mindscape Museum in Lagos || A detailed review || Things to do with your children in Lagos

December 23, 2019




I heard about the mindscape museum from the founder of Key Academy and I was so glad we found the place. We've been there twice since we found the place and I am just here to pay it forward by telling you all about this amazing space in the heart of Lekki phase 1! 


First Impression!
I was impressed when I got into the compound, I didn't expect it to be as big as it was. I mean, when you go to different places in this Lagos for kids, they are so small and I was expecting a small space but I was surprised. They have enough parking space. I went there on a weekday and it was empty at first then people started coming later in the afternoon. 

Our Experience!
When we got in, I was blown away by how many activities there were for children. We went alone the first time we went but when I went with my sister and her daughter the 2nd time, we had a more fun experience. I would recommend going with someone else or if you have multiple children, that'd be great. 

Activities available for the kids to explore; 

They have; 

  • Glow in the dark room with shapes, colour and items children can identify and explore
  • Light table with magnetic tiles 
  • Bistro with faux food, money where the children can role play as chefs and make 'food' to sell 
  • Bank 
  • Veterinary
  • Supermarket
  • First responder
  • Cinema
  • Construction space
  • Reading corner 
  • Toddler space 
  • Transportation & Sewing 
  • Stem Cafe - This comes at an extra cost
  • Great outdoor space






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What I loved most about the space: 

The space is absolutely incredible and the uniqueness of the activities and knowing that it is a great learning opportunity for your children. I love that you can stay till 5pm (if you want) literally play for the whole day and one of their major goals is to promote parental involvement and because of that they make it free for parents to access the facility. I also love that what the children are learning are life long lessons that will be valuable for them throughout their lifetime. I love that it is affordable for the value you get. 

What I didn't like: 

  • No one really explained about the space to us when we first got there, however the 2nd time they showed my sister around. 
  • It feels like they are not making an effort to keep the place alive. I really don't know but the space is an amazing place and it's been around for a while. I really hope they do keep the place alive. 
  • I didn't like that only my son was having so much fun, but on our second trip my sister found something to do while I watched the kids. Lol

Prices: 

They have a pretty affordable 

2,500 for 1 - 3 
3,500 for 3 and above
2,000 for Nannies or relations
Free for parents 
 Check out more details on their website: https://mindscapesmuseums.org/

Will I recommend them? ABSOLUTELY!!!! If you are looking for things to do in Lagos, this is an fantastic place to take your chi

5 CUDDLY LOVES!!!!!!!

Have you heard about them or visited? Please let me know what you think of them. 

Follow me on Instagram @thecuddleblog to see all the places we explore in real time

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